Recently, we gathered for The Holder's REST Retreat—a weekend created for women who spend so much of their lives caring for, leading, supporting, and showing up for others- Being Holder's.

And what a beautiful reminder it was that rest is not simply the absence of work.

It is a practice.

We explored what it means to release the pressure of holding everything, listen to our bodies, soften, surrender, play, and allow ourselves to ask for help. We made room for women to experience something many of us rarely give ourselves permission to experience: being cared for without having to earn it.

But the work doesn't end with a weekend away.

Introducing the very new, carefully curated:

The Holder's Lounge.

A community and gathering space for the women who hold so much—and are ready to experience something different.

The Holder's Lounge is where we continue the conversations around emotional labor, nervous system wellness, generational patterns, relationships, identity, rest, and restoration.

Our goal is simple: to create a space where you don't have to be the strong one all the time.

Our first gathering: The Mother's Wound

We are opening the conversation with a topic that touches so many of us.

How have our relationships with our mothers shaped the women we've become? What patterns, expectations, and wounds have been passed down? How do we honor our mothers and our histories while creating a different experience for ourselves?

Join us for this important conversation:

Monday, November 9, 2026​
​12:00 PM CST

Learn more about The Holder's Lounge and join us here:

​The holder's Lounge

Whether you're a therapist, healer, caregiver, business owner, leader, or simply a woman who is tired of carrying so much and is completely exhausted; there is space for you here.

And if you'd like to learn more about the Lounge, membership, or upcoming experiences, simply reply to this email. I'd love to connect and share more.

Because here's what I want you to remember:

You can be a woman who leads and a woman who rests. You can love others without abandoning yourself. You can be strong without always having to be the strong one.

Hope to see you there, Next Monday; November 9th @12pm CST